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SINGLE AND SENSIBLE With charles ikoabasi Night Market! •       How to make the right choice in marriage  In Africa, particularly in Nigeria, night always falls with all its force of dread and darkness. Public places like markets become shadowy and creepy …electricity being a scarce commodity and public lighting a novelty. I have some experience in shopping at an African night market. A few years ago, in my naivety, I stopped by Agboju market close to the Communion Church in Lagos, at about 7:30pm to price meat. I remembered  how I enjoyed some exotic beef  parts as a child so I saw this piece of cow tongue and it was very cheap, so I bought and joyfully headed home to boast to my wife about my shopping skills. Well I guess she didn’t want to dampen my spirit so she kept her opinion to herself. But I later discovered myself, that I had bought rotten meat at “a bargain”. Without the benefit of illumination, I could not have examined what I bought until ...

  👗            👖 SEVEN  - 7️⃣- ways to avoid emotional and sexual affairs* 1. Don’t trust yourself Don't also over trust your partner he/she is human  Life happens. Feelings happen. Most people don’t plan to have an affair before they have one. Keep 2 👀 eyes open in your marriage and run when u have to.  Also keep encouraging each other not to be too close to the opposite sex.  If ur husband is getting to close to someone in your environment, step in and be the 3rd party in that friendship. Most women will run once a legitimate partner walks in.   Watch each other's conversations and acquaintances.  Be accountable to each other in terms of relationships. Keep your phones accesible to each. ( some  of us would not like that last one, but it's the way to go if you really want marriage as it should be ) 2. Stay far from old flames.  Social media is probably the easiest way to stay connected with old crushes....

 Pastor Charles talks to MEN :  WIN BACK YOUR FAMILY       God bless you as you tune in this day to your weekly tonic on your favorite station, the program is still Love Talk with Pastor Charles The program that brings you knowledge and wisdom on relationships…. My name is charles Ikoabasi, lead pastor of Livingword Family Church We are located in Ibeju Lekki off Lekki Epe expressway through  Elesekan   F ather’s Day tomorrow and I think it is a good time to talk to our Men, Fathers and Husbands. And to the women that love our men. It is the week to appreciate the Fathers and Husbands, the Fathers-to-be and the other significant men in our lives. I actually believe that the men in our lives are under-appreciated, Men do so much but what they do are not always noticed by children, because in many instances, fathers are not hands-on with children and family. Often there is an intimacy-gap and   involvement-gap bet...

Why men eye their maids and secretaries.  A young woman may look forward to sexual excitement and romantic adventures while single.  But these desires gradually fade with time,  with age , with marriage with the coming of children and with career.    Once a woman is married she begins to gradually lose her appetite for sexual excitement.  This cooling does not come overnight though,  it comes little by little,  little by little . When children come , you lose more desire for sexual excitement. It fades even faster because she now finds  fulfillment in bonding with her children.  And you  know,  simply being a mother gives her excitement. At that time the man may begin to feel left out and unloved.   So young women ... You   women in  late 30s begin to take note of this so that you don't abandon your husband in the course of loving your children.   A woman in her 40s who has been married f...

 : 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐃𝐢𝐠𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐖𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐏𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐞𝐬 💕 Topic :  MY Husband is Having an Affair ...with Porn   Part 1 Women also do porn , but  men are particularly wired for visual stimulation , moved by what they see...I.E. the woman's body.  So you find more men searching for visual sexual engagements. With the coming of the internet, and mobile devices,  porn becomes cheap and readily available.  So u find men digging in .🥢 A more dangerous trend is when a man collects explicit pictures from female friends or his EX .   *Why married men do porn*  💃🏼 . Lack of sexual satisfaction in the marriage  💃🏼 Sex is drab , not exciting  💃🏼 Not enough visual stimulation coming from madam . The man hardly has a good view of the wife's nakedness  💃🏼. The man does not find the wife sexually attractive.  Often occurs in older couples , but also with younger ones .  💃🏼 The wife is away , or oga tra...

Thou shall not commit adultery .... ...m eans don't divorce. Divorce in our churches is the sign of decreasing spirituality. That u are a pastor does not exempt you of spiritual responsibility to grow , deny yourself, and gain victory over the flesh. Christianity calls for sacrificial love but we have extreme love of self and love of pleasure instead . Instead of forgiveness we are totally intolerant and holier than Thou. We are impatient with our children spouses and domestic helps. We are carnal and mundane and temporal in our world view. If am not enjoying it then it is not of God. This spiritual failure is the reason for divorce. It is a phenomenon that manifests in other areas of life but it is not noticed in those areas. Our failures in financial integrity is not published because our society tolerates certain levels of corruption . In fact if you do not cut corners in certain financial dealings you are accused of being over spiritual and not wise. But the occurrence of ...