𝙋𝙧𝙚𝙥𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙁𝙤𝙧 𝙈𝙖𝙧𝙧𝙞𝙖𝙜𝙚 𝙒𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙚 𝙀𝙣𝙟𝙤𝙮𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙎𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙡𝙚 𝙇𝙞𝙛𝙚 - 𝙀𝙭𝙘𝙚𝙧𝙥𝙩 𝙁𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙈𝙮 𝙍𝙖𝙙𝙞𝙤 𝙋𝙧𝙤𝙜𝙧𝙖𝙢

Preparing for Marriage While Enjoying the Single Life.  

You see, too many people prepare for the wedding day, but not enough prepare for the marriage itself.

So if you’re single and believing God for marriage—or even just curious about what to do in this season—this is for you."

This episode is also for married people who wish to make their marriages better. You can always go back to pick some wisdom you missed that can make your marriage better. 

🎙️ before u enter marriage Understand the Purpose of Marriage 

Why do you want to get married . Because of sex and romance okay but t

Marriage isn’t just about romance,  . 

It's about partnership, mutual support and about fulfilling purpose

Genesis 2:18 says, 'It is not good for man to be alone; I will make a helper suitable for him.'

Ecc 4:9.10 Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 NLT

Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. [10] If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But someone who falls alone is in real trouble.

So you can see that marriage is a lot more than physical attraction and sex and romance otherwise all you would need would have been sex organs and beautiful bodies. But beautiful faces have never made a good marriage.  really marriage is complicated marriage is deep marriage is a responsibility and an opportunity to better your life. A good peaceful marriage will make zoy for life while a bad marriage can scatter a person forever. 

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After having a beautiful idea about the purpose of Marriage,  next thing is to make yourself 

2. Make yourself like the partner u desire.

You want to marry a good girl a good man then make yourself good . 

Make yourself like what u want 

You want to marry a God partner then work on your spirituality 

 You want to marry a PhD holder or highly educated and enlighten person then get at least an Ond 

You see for ladies . There is a trick men play on women . Sometimes what they want in a wife is a slave or master servant relationship so a highly educated man would profess love for and marry an unschooled girl who would say yes to everything.  The girl would be fooled onlz to end up frustrated . Having been turned into a servant instead of a partner 

So ladies try and measure up into what you want in marriage.  

You want to marry a billionaire then learn to make and manage money before you marry.  Else as a wife you end up being just a house wife or an acquisition of a rich man . Instead if you were more qualified. Zoy would manage one of the businesses of your billionaire husband

Before u marry as a girl have a hustle . Have a business. Have a career path. Learn a trade and make yourself a fit companion for a fit partner.

 As a man make yourself attractive to the kind of woman you want.  Some women who have spent time and effort preparing themselves feel insulted when a lazy unschooled and unprepared man walks up to propose. Yes even though we do not look down on anyone. Yet I won't be happy investing in my daughters and then one guy who never went to school . Has no job no skill and no plans would just walk up and say he wants my daughters hand in marriage.  No please gentlemen.  Prepare for marriage.  Prepare for the kind of girl you desire. Measure up and don't use church and am born again as a qualification . 

Even if you don't have something let it be that you are pursuing something 

Prepare yourself. 

You don’t prepare for marriage by obsessing over finding the right person. You prepare by becoming the right person.

Ask yourself:

🔹 Am I emotionally healed?

🔹 Do I know how to communicate with grace and maturity?

🔹 Do I manage my time and money well?

🔹 Is my relationship with God vibrant or shallow?