Married men do porn

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 : 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐃𝐢𝐠𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐖𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐏𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐞𝐬 💕

Topic :  MY Husband is Having an Affair ...with Porn

  Part 1

Women also do porn , but  men are particularly wired for visual stimulation , moved by what they see...I.E. the woman's body. 

So you find more men searching for visual sexual engagements. With the coming of the internet, and mobile devices,  porn becomes cheap and readily available. 

So u find men digging in .🥢

A more dangerous trend is when a man collects explicit pictures from female friends or his EX . 

 *Why married men do porn* 

💃🏼 . Lack of sexual satisfaction in the marriage 

💃🏼 Sex is drab , not exciting 

💃🏼 Not enough visual stimulation coming from madam . The man hardly has a good view of the wife's nakedness 

💃🏼. The man does not find the wife sexually attractive.  Often occurs in older couples , but also with younger ones . 

💃🏼 The wife is away , or oga traveled 

💃🏼 Long quarel btw couple 


𝑊𝑒𝑑𝑛𝑒𝑠𝑑𝑎𝑦 𝑊𝑖𝑠𝑑𝑜𝑚  


Topic :  Dealing With Visual Adultery in a Marriage 

  

 *PART 11* : 



𝐃𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐨𝐟 V𝐢𝐬𝐮𝐚𝐥 A𝐟𝐟𝐚𝐢𝐫𝐬 𝐢𝐧  𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞 


🏃🏾‍♂️Guilt . 


🏃🏾‍♂️Reduced Spirituality


🏃🏾‍♂️ Reduced sexual activity. The man loses interest in madam 


🏃🏾‍♂️ Masturbation, leading to poor performance in bed. 


🏃🏾‍♂️ Reduced interest in the marriage .  Even hostility in some cases 


🏃🏾‍♂️ Love grows cold 


🏃🏾‍♂️ Sometimes the man seeks his fantasy with a real woman, another woman thereby completing the cycle of adultery . 


🏃🏾‍♂️  Reduced productivity at work  due to distraction


🏃🏾‍♂️. Lust , unsatisfied LUST 


🏃🏾‍♂️ Brain damage

[02/02, 12:24] *CHARLES 555: 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐃𝐢𝐠𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐖𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐏𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐞𝐬 💕


𝑊𝑒𝑑𝑛𝑒𝑠𝑑𝑎𝑦 𝑊𝑖𝑠𝑑𝑜𝑚  


Topic :  Dealing With Visual Adultery in a Marriage 

  

 *PART 111* : 





𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐦𝐚𝐧 *overcome the obsession*   


🎗️ Don't rebuke or condemn him ...it may only lead to more secretive activity 


🎗️ Discuss your sexual relationship. What is working and what is not.  _Sex is a major part of marriage,  don't pretend that it is not_ 


🎗️ Ask him about his sexual preferences and fantasies 


🎗️ Maintain a policy of absolute nakedness in the bedroom. Let children have their own space.  


🎗️ Change your dressing if you have to. Look more sexy outside ( but not naked ) 


🎗️ Give Oga what he wants , when  he wants it , where he wants it .  


🎗️ Do your best to enjoy sex, tell him what you like . Don't be cold or  passive or businesslike. ( _do what u want and let's go) 

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🎗️Allow him to touch anything he wants. 


🎗️ Change environment,  have a sex vacation weekend. Take a decent, fully air conditioned  hotel room where the Generator is 24 hours .



🎗️ Pray for your union

[02/02, 12:24] *CHARLES 555: 💫

[02/02, 12:24] *CHARLES 555: 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐃𝐢𝐠𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐖𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐏𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐞𝐬 💕


𝑊𝑒𝑑𝑛𝑒𝑠𝑑𝑎𝑦 𝑊𝑖𝑠𝑑𝑜𝑚  


Topic :  Dealing With Visual Adultery in a Marriage 

  

 *PART 1V* : 






𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐨𝐠𝐚 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩 𝐡𝐢𝐦𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 


😦 Be open about your weakness . Nothing to be ashamed about  Marriage is for openness and mutual help 


😦 Be open about your sexual needs 


😦 Make a promise to your wife and ask her to watch over  you 



😦 Put your browser on _safe search_ 


😦 Delete all explicit photos from all devices 


😦 Have a pix of madam every where 


😦 Give madam money to.make hair and buy smart clothes. 


😦 Cut off all unholy relationships 


😦 Receive help from Christ

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